A Living Eulogy or Funeral

What is a living Eulogy or Funeral?

A living eulogy is a way to mark our love and respect for someone who has contributed to our lives in some way, whether as a partner, family member, friend or colleague. It is a speech or tribute celebrating a living person and their life. The person may be nearing the end of their life due to age or illness, and they or you, or both, want to share how much they have meant to you before they leave us. 

It may be that a loved one is getting older and you, friends and family want to show your love and gratitude to them now and not after they have passed away. Or, a person may wish to write a living eulogy so they themselves have some control over what is said about them, to tell their story,  and have a chance to share that while they can.  

Working together

I will meet with you, to listen and work with you (if you wish to write your own living eulogy) and family or friends who you wish to be involved in the ceremony, to create a eulogy and/or a ceremony that reflects you and your wishes.  The funeral or memorial will be built on your memories, anecdotes, and stories. I will write as much of the Ceremony as you wish, and help you to think about or choose readings, poems, music, tributes.  

Digital and long-distanced ceremonies

Today's technology enables you to include family and friends who live far away or who cannot attend the ceremony for whatever reason.  I will be happy to talk with you about using technology and to work with you, your family and friends, to help ensure the ceremony is accessible .

Fees

My standard fee for a Living Eulogy (ceremony script) is £250. If you would like my help in creating a living funeral or similar service, we would agree any additional fees to reflect the work and time involved.